I have done a lot of soul searching this weekend. I have shed many tears and realized that I’m on a journey a journey that will have up’s and down’s but a good friend of mine Kim she tells me often Sarah you have a choice in your life you can choice to be happy or unhappy. She’s right God gives us free will to choose. I know for sure I do not choose porn over my life. After watching a bunch of videos now that life is a life I want to put behind me. I watched some documentary last night about prescription drugs and these poor people hooked on them for years and how it’s so painful to get off them but they chose to turn their lives around. As I was watching I was thinking I’m glad I never got hooked on drugs like that. Later I looked up what porn does to a person and they described how it’s like the same high you get from cocaine. Wow! that shocked me to no end. I have an addiction to porn and it’s the same high in my brain. No wonder pornography is the secret silent addiction. So I’m destroying my brain as well as everything else that is good in my life.
Even though my marriage never got better when I was off porn for a year I can see how this can completely destroy anything at all. My husband was away all weekend and after he pass worded my apps I had a mini freak out and searched out for more porn. Of course it’s easy to find in my home we have so many gadgets and things that I search for or seek out. Even though I have access to these things I know know this will be it for me. Its so degrading watching these videos and my mind goes to people who are held hostage to produce these videos and many look high. They have no choice. I thought about this weekend all the wonderful things God has given me in my life the reunion of two of our three children and how I need to be there for them they need a good positive women in their lives. I love those children like they are my own. God has given me a wonderful husband even though our marriage is tough. I believe I need to start praying for him everyday. God has provided me with a job which I have wanted my whole life I now have it and I need to be praising Him. I have a home and wonderful people who love me.
No matter what is going on im my life now I can do this day by day. There is a lot of loss in my life and now my accountability partner she’s got medical stuff has stepped away from me. She is an incredible strong Christian women who challenged me and encouraged me so much in my journey. I will continue to pray for her but feel sad because that accountability is so crucial to my recovery. I have been praying God brings someone else into my life. I have been through lots of hard things and I have never given up and now laying all this at God’s feet I surrender it all to Him. He is my guide, my strength my everything. I trust Him. I’m fighting for my life and with The Lord in my life I cannot fail. Thank you Lord for leading me back to you, for reaching out your hand to me when I was in that miry pit. The biggest part of this is to forgive myself for falling and forgive myself that I”m human and I will fall sometimes up God is always there to catch me.